Okoro Blessing Nkiruka

Born

1989-05-23 (age 37)

Place of Birth

Abakaliki, Onicha Local Government Area, Ebonyi State, Nigeria

Occupations

Relationship Therapist, Social Media Influencer, Author, Entrepreneur, Teacher, Event Planner

Years Active

2018 - Present

Spouse

Mr. Onyeka Lucky Ikechukwu

Alma Mater

Enugu State University of Science and Technology (ESUT)

Also known as

Blessing CEO

Connect

Instagram

Biography

EARLY LIFE

Okoro Blessing Nkiruka, popularly known as Blessing CEO, is a controversial Nigerian relationship therapist, social media influencer, entrepreneur, and author. Born on May 23, 1989, in Onicha Local Government Area, Ebonyi State, she rose to prominence through her outspoken and often polarizing views on relationships, marriage, and personal development. Blessing CEO was born into a family of modest means in Abakaliki, the capital city of Ebonyi State. She is the firstborn in a family of six children. Her father, Mr. Okoro Chijioke, is a retired civil servant, while her mother, Mrs. Okoro Anthonia, is a trader. Growing up in a conservative Igbo household, Blessing developed an independent mindset that later defined her career. Blessing Nkiruka began her early education at Queen’s Model Academy, Abakaliki, before proceeding to Federal Government Girls’ College, Owerri. She pursued higher education at Enugu State University of Science and Technology (ESUT), where she obtained a Bachelor’s degree in Economics in 2011. She has since participated in several self-development courses, particularly in psychology and counseling, which she claims form the foundation of her work as a relationship therapist.

CAREER

Blessing CEO began her career as a teacher and event planner in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, before transitioning into the world of content creation and relationship counseling. She gained prominence in 2018 with her viral posts addressing marital challenges and relationship issues on Instagram and YouTube. Her ability to tackle taboo topics such as infidelity, divorce, and domestic abuse earned her widespread attention. Blessing is the CEO of Break or Make Up, a platform focused on helping couples navigate the complexities of modern relationships. She also runs a private counseling practice where she provides relationship advice and hosts workshops for women and couples.

PERSONAL LIFE

Blessing CEO’s personal life has been as controversial as her career. She was married at the age of 21 in 2010 to Mr. Onyeka Ikechukwu, an Igbo businessman from Anambra State. The union ended in a divorce in 2016, with Blessing citing domestic violence as the primary reason for their separation. In a 2019 interview, she revealed that her marriage left her emotionally scarred, a story that resonated with many of her followers. Blessing is a single mother of two sons, whom she often shares motivational stories about on her platforms. She has remained tight-lipped about her romantic relationships post-divorce but has been linked to several public figures, though none of these rumors have been confirmed. Blessing CEO’s career has been marred by a series of high-profile scandals and controversies, which have only fueled her popularity. One of her most notorious controversies occurred in April 2019, when Blessing posted photos of a mansion she claimed to have built as a single mother. Shortly after, it was revealed that the mansion actually belonged to an Onitsha-based businessman, Onye Eze, an Igbo entrepreneur. The incident escalated when Onye Eze invited police to arrest Blessing at his residence in Onitsha. Videos of her being paraded in handcuffs went viral, causing significant backlash. In a public statement, Onye Eze accused her of lying for clout, while Blessing admitted that the incident taught her humility. Despite the embarrassment, she later leveraged the controversy to gain more followers. Blessing CEO had a public disagreement with Tonto Dikeh, a fellow Igbo celebrity and actress, in July 2021. The feud began when Blessing criticized Tonto’s approach to exposing her ex-husband, Olakunle Churchill, on social media. Tonto responded with a scathing post, accusing Blessing of hypocrisy and seeking attention. The feud trended on social media for days, with fans taking sides. In March 2023, Blessing was arrested by the Lagos State Police for alleged cyberbullying in connection with the case of Bimbo Ogbonna, the late wife of celebrity auto dealer, IVD (Ikechukwu Darry Ogbonna). Blessing had publicly defended IVD, accusing Bimbo’s family of defamation. Her comments sparked outrage, leading to a lawsuit by Bimbo’s family. Blessing spent several days in detention before being released on bail. In late 2024, Blessing CEO publicly confirmed her romantic involvement with Lagos-based auto dealer Ikechukwu Darry Ogbonna, popularly known as IVD. This revelation came approximately two years after the tragic death of IVD’s wife, Bimbo Ogbonna, in October 2022. Bimbo reportedly died from injuries sustained in a fire incident at their home, which was widely alleged to have been a result of domestic violence. Following Bimbo’s death, Blessing CEO emerged as a vocal supporter of IVD, asserting his innocence in the events leading to his wife’s demise. She publicly claimed that Bimbo had exhibited violent and suicidal behaviors, suggesting that these factors contributed to the tragic incident. These statements sparked significant public outcry, with many accusing Blessing of insensitivity and victim-blaming. In January 2025, during a Facebook Live session with media personality Daddy Freeze, Blessing CEO confirmed her relationship with IVD, describing him as “one of the sweetest people I have ever known” and refuting claims that he was HIV positive. She stated that their relationship evolved from a professional therapist-client dynamic to a romantic one, emphasizing her belief in his innocence regarding the allegations surrounding his late wife’s death. Despite her controversies, Blessing CEO has received recognition for her work in promoting relationship awareness. Some of her notable awards include: Most Influential Relationship Expert of the Year (2021) – Nigeria Social Media Awards Content Creator of the Year (2022) – African Social Influencers Awards Outstanding Women Empowerment Advocate (2023) – Ebonyi State Women Awards Despite her polarizing reputation, Blessing CEO has successfully positioned herself as one of Nigeria’s leading voices on modern relationships. Her ability to turn controversies into opportunities has made her a household name. Love her or hate her, Blessing’s journey exemplifies resilience, self-reinvention, and the power of social media.

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